A Pity Party Is Still a Party, Chelsea Harvey Garner
A Pity Party Is Still a Party, Chelsea Harvey Garner
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A Pity Party Is Still a Party
A Feel-Good Guide to Feeling Bad

Author: Chelsea Harvey Garner

Narrator: Ann Marie Gideon

Unabridged: 6 hr 9 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Harper Wave

Published: 07/11/2023

Includes: Bonus Material Bonus Material Included


Synopsis

Most of us try to avoid feeling sad, but in this candid, comical, and deeply-felt book, therapist Chelsea Harvey Garner doesn’t just argue that the future will be brighter if we learn to enjoy the unenjoyable and support each other when the vibes aren’t so good, she also shows us how.What if all the advice we’ve received about “looking on the bright side” is wrong? What if sadness is actually the key to happiness, and can even be . . . fun? Garner is here to make that case. In this feel-good guide to feeling bad, she claims it’s not enough for us to tolerate hard feelings. We need to embrace them. We need to let them show by crying with others. Often. In public.Playful, at times irreverent, but always sincere, Garner is the grown-up Miss Frizzle for the therapy generation. She believes that if we want to build a world where mental health is the norm, we have to lean into connection and count on each other, even—and perhaps especially—at our worst.Through anecdotes about her own hardships and insights gained in her clinical practice, Garner illuminates the power (and embarrassment) of opening up. Featuring solo exercises, group activities, and journal prompts alongside personal essays, she invites us to see emotions in a new light and engage with them in a healthier way. A Pity Party is Still a Party helps us find the silver lining, but only after we’ve played in the rain.Supplemental enhancement PDF accompanies the audiobook.

About Chelsea Harvey Garner

Chelsea Harvey Garner is a writer, psychotherapist, and director of Big Feels Lab, a nonprofit that promotes collective mental health. In her clinical practice, she specializes in helping misfits, survivors, and unconventional families reclaim a sense of dignity and connect with one another more deeply. When not working, she can be found starting dance parties in public and hosting cuddle puddles at her home in NYC.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Jennifer on June 19, 2023

The COVID-19 pandemic contributed to rising cases of depression and more public discussions about mental health, and while many people responded with toxic positivity or outright denial, many others felt some relief in being able to go public with feeling bad. Garner, a therapist, offers this book a......more

Goodreads review by Ashley on February 09, 2024

Some parts of this book were super relatable while others were super over the top. The more journal-y part was lovely and made me feel less alone in the world. At the end of a lot of the chapters Garner provided tips on how to have a party and I found this awkward, frankly, with the way I’m feeling......more

Goodreads review by Khue on May 20, 2024

A great guide for millennials and early Gen Zers. Her writing comforted me as if they were my closest friends sitting me down after I got broken up with; whimsical, sometimes not helpful, but all very real. You take what is helpful, appreciate the rest! There’s a good mix of reflection questions and......more

Goodreads review by Michelle on October 05, 2023

Good read. I loved it. I laughed a lot! She has a great sense of humor. I’ve recommended this book to my clients age ranges 14-91! My 91 year old client who told me she is struggling with anxiety about the world today said she loved it. As someone who has spent easily the last 15 years combing throu......more

Goodreads review by Tenille on March 22, 2024

It is true that many of us have been taught that being or expressing sadness is not a good thing. Sometimes we feel that we are weak for having such thoughts or emotions. One thing I found interesting is how she discussed that having sad/bad vibes is not a bad thing. We can't be perfect or happy eve......more